The "Secret"

Here's a secret: Life is meant to be lived not controlled!

Really, how awful would it be to accept what is in your life at face value and not try and play mental games with it and turn it into a positive if it isn't? Life is all things: good and bad, happy and sad, impoverished and wealthy, and these things make a complete life, and a full compassionate human.

Don't you get tired of people continually trying to be positive and putting a spin on something to give it meaning? What if it just IS? What if you got into a car accident and that is all it was? The accident wasn't to teach you a lesson on safe driving (it could have if it was your fault, but let's pretend it wasn't) or to bring a person into your life that you needed, or to give you a new car because your car was totaled it just happened.

This could be a way of life that could bring you great peace because you are no longer struggling to put a positive spin or judge your existence. You are simply living, and, hopefully, living to your fullest.